It seems all the rage on blogs to take a moment to reflect on the past year as it draws to a close. Well, it’s probably more a human quality, and since humans write blogs, well, there you go.
2007 has led me down an interesting path. At the end of 2006, I was very pregnant, I’d just finished recovering from a broken foot, I was working full time in a promising career at a Fortune 100 company, we owned a large 4 bedroom house in central NJ.
Now, I have a 10 month-old son…. he is by far the biggest thing that happened to me in 2007. Jake is simply amazing. He has a curiosity for the world that is already so apparent, it won’t be long before he’s taking apart our DVD player just to see what’s inside. And he’s happy. Nearly anything can elicit a giggle or even a hearty laugh from him and it melts my heart every time. He already has a first word – dog – although that ‘guh’ sound at the end apparently is just too pedestrian for him to bother with. It’s a fitting first word; we have a golden retriever and he thinks she’s just awesome. He’s pretty laid-back too, in general, which is good given his sister’s appetite for wrestling with him.
Speaking of his sister, she’s had quite a year too, and it’s been fun (mostly) to watch. 2007 has brought Lane her 3rd birthday, successful potty-training, and the ability to sleep through the night. Lest you think that has made our jobs as parents easier, don’t you get ahead of yourself. 😉 Lane is – how shall I say this – a complicated child. The hip way to describe her is ‘spirited’. She is as intense a person as I have ever met. There is not an ambivalent bone in her body, and she feels every emotion and shares every opinion with a strength of passion I hope will serve her well in life. She also may have a birth defect, that being that her body has mastered cold fusion. This little girl has more energy than anyone I’ve ever seen. She can go and go and go and go and go. Sleep is an afterthought for her. If there is a point where she can burn off so much energy that she will go to bed earlier, we haven’t found it yet. Please don’t think for a second I’d change any of that. Lane is awesome fun to have around. Her joy and verve and exuberance are contagious, and she’s a constant reminder that life is meant to be lived, and be fun, and what use is it to sit around?!? This year has also brought Lane an exploding vocabulary and the daily joy of having conversations with her.
Anyway, back on track here! While I started the year as a working, career-minded (though increasingly ambivalent), homeowning mother, I’m ending it, well, I’m still a mother. We sold our house to move closer to my husband’s parents in downstate NY. I quit the promising career at the great company, which was at the same time exhilarating and the scariest thing I’ve ever done. We moved to another state and are renting an apartment while we househunt for a house that, while it should still be sufficiently roomy and nice enough, will not be the house we left in New Jersey.
2007 has turned me into a stay-at-home mom to two kids, and though I never knew it, it’s exactly what I always wanted.
2008 promises to be a great one for our family, too. There will be another move when we buy our new house. My husband is an actuary, and 2008 should be the year he attains his Associate of the Society of Actuaries, which anyone who is or knows an actuary can tell you, that’s a big deal. Jake will turn a year old, and will reach a ton of milestones this year – talking, walking, maybe even doing our taxes for us. We’re going to Aruba in April. It should be a pretty amazing year for our family.
And here’s wishing that your 2008 is full of discovery and wonder and joy and love.