It’s been a whirlwind few days!
As I mentioned previously, Lane went to Buffalo on Monday. My dad was here visiting for one night with his fiancee from Sunday to Monday, and as they were preparing to leave, Lane started saying she REALLLLY wanted to go to Buffalo with Grandpa Jerry. Well, he’s retired, and she wouldn’t miss anything more than a few days of preschool and a dance class. So she went. By all reports they had a blast. Tuesday was an off weather day in Buffalo so they hung out at home and watched movies, and Wednesday they went to the Buffalo Zoo. (I am happy to report no polar bears died while they were visiting.)
Then, Jake and I drove up there on Wednesday afternoon and got there about 9:00 p.m. Thursday was general hanging-out-with-relatives, and my dad took Jake to see choo-choos (my dad used to work on the railroad).
I also had a very sweet, very frank conversation with my brother about life stuff and relationship stuff of which I will not violate his confidence by divulging the details here, but it make my heart sigh, in that good way. He’s a good egg who just needs to sort out his priorities a little and really realize he’s more grown-up and mature than he gives himself credit for.
Then, Friday, the kids and I headed for the Albany area, where we visited with my friend Amanda and her new, perfect little baby, and where Frank rendez-vous’ed with us. We stayed there last night, and then went to my friend Cari’s daughter’s first birthday party, where we also saw other friends we hadn’t seen in awhile, being caught up in the whole moving-into-our-house-and-getting-it-spiffied-up whirlwind, as we are. But there are tentative plans to get together with the other friends in the next couple weeks, and for Amanda to visit at some point in November, so we’re getting caught up, socially, which feels good.
And now we are home, and I’m sitting on my own couch, and I’m relishing that we don’t have to travel anywhere until Christmas (unless we choose to do so otherwise, before then). Not that we won’t be busy – we have a dining room that needs wallpaper stripped and a coat of the “tomato bisque” paint I bought before Thanksgiving, among a couple other rooms that need painting. But after our last two busy weekends… bring on the paint. 🙂
Posted in babies & kids, friends and such, growing up and/or old, holidays, home, me and the family
Tagged babies, birthday, buffalo zoo, car trip, family, friends, grandpa, home, home improvement, paint, polar bears, travel, zoo
Arctic ice-cap melting faster than anyone predicted
This whole climate change really has me freaked out and sad and just feeling so impotent. So often it feels like the changes that could make any sort of difference are so expensive and lofty and I just don’t want it to all be so hard!
I came across an article that sums up pretty well the feelings. Basically, there’s a grief process that goes along with accepting climate change. I feel like I’m right in the middle of it.
But I’m trying, I really am. We bought reusable grocery bags for shopping, and we buy biodegradable pooper-scooper bags for cleaning up after Bailey, our golden retriever. Frank’s next car will nearly certainly be a hybrid, assuming we can put off buying a different car for him for at least a couple years and can find a good deal on a used one.
But reading that whole arctic ice-cap thing has me really bummed, especially because I love polar bears. Who wouldn’t love polar bears?!? They are fluffy and cute and they could rip your heart out with one swipe of a paw. They are magnificent.
As you may or may not be aware, polar bears need ice. Without the Arctic Ocean all frozen and stuff, their hunting territory shrinks. They cannot hunt. And they die.
So I am left to wonder — what can I do, TOMORROW, to help the polar bears? Something small, something fairly effortless, something tangible but without hardship? Let’s see. I know, I’ll lower my thermostat. It’s chilly in these parts, but surely I can survive with my house’s thermostat at 66 tomorrow instead of 68. If we get cold, we own sweaters. And I was thinking of going to the mall anyway, as it is the last day of Old Navy’s killer post-holiday 75% off clearance sale, so if we go, I will be sure to lower the thermostat all the way down to 60.
I know it’s small. I wish it could be bigger. But I am but one person and for tomorrow, this is my best.
Posted in conservation & environment, stuff i really care about
Tagged arctic, climate change, conservation, ice, impotent, old navy, polar bears, sad, sale, thermostat